"Theoretically, these steps are simple; but you do not live in a theory. You live a real life."

 These words launch us into the greatest adventure of all--that of engaging love and life. Dr. Anne Harris draws on her thirty-years as a psychotherapist in Asheville, North Carolina, to bring us an accessible, grounded-in-reality method for not only improving our relationships but reinventing them. Go from being IN a relationship to BEING in a relationship--one in which both people thrive, speak and nourish just as they receive the nourishment back. Examine the patterns that create the surface of your relationship, and find the tools for changing them. "When Two Souls Find Each Other--SOMEONE still needs to take out the trash" shows the way.